PD♥: There will come a time..

Sorry guys, I just have to blog my excitement for today. Only three days left until I see the person whom I missed the most these past few days. Pagbigyan nyo na ako mga teh. Hahah!! If I can just draw my face, it will probably look like this (♥_♥) Lols.

In my Instagram Account (Follow me @engrspicylover), I posted this picture of ours...



Oh diba, B/W lang ang peg ko ngayon. I'll wait for him
to get me back the colors of my life. Chos! EMO..

Seriously, Rhy and I have been together for 6 years already but for me, I'm still head over heels in love with him and I feel his feelings for me is like that too. I hope it will be like this until we grow old with each other. If you ask me, I fell in love with him because God made him the way he is - my complement, my direct opposite and we all know that opposites really do attract. In public, he doesn't want to display his feelings as much as possible. Xempre, ako kabaliktaran, shinishare ko especially kapag super kinikilig lang ako. Lols!

As a couple, there will come a time where you get tired with each other and get bored or nagsasawa na. Alam mo yung feeling na parang wala lang but for us, we try to explore new things. You will get tired if you make things a routine so when you introduce a new thing, that will just be enough to bring back the excitement to the both of you. In our relationship, it is me who always initiate new things to try so that we won't feel tired with each other. Kailangan laging may bago para hindi nawawala ang spark at hindi nagsasawa. I'm still childish (at hindi daw ako nahiyang aminin toh, haha!) so you can really expect me to be the playful and adventurous person in the relationship. Out of the blue, sometimes, I just ask him that we go to the mall and play pool or bowling. As in biglaan lang. Then sometimes, I would just ask him we go and have dinner in Tagaytay. I remember, there's one time where we went to Picnic Grove and I asked him that we ride the zipline pero ayaw niya talaga magzipline mga teh, takot siya sa heights. (Bucket list ko to: ang sabay kaming sumakay sa zipline balang araw. lols!) Almost always, it's the unplanned activities that are very romantic and where we get to bond a lot.

In a relationship, there will also come a time that you feel you are alone. In our case, he is the one who is very busy. Parang nakadikit na sa kanya yung work niya. Take note, he's the hardworking type where he goes to work from Mondays to Sundays. Yes! Daig nya pa ang nasa medical field sa pagiging busy. Even though his schedule is like this, I can still feel the effort of reaching out like even if he's super tired, he just rests for a bit then he treats me somewhere for a simple dinner.

In a world where there are so many temptations, there will also come a time where both of you will probably deal with trust issues - Jealousy! Selos! Inggit! - but we have already overcome this part by trusting each other completely. It's with him that I learned to resist the temptation of getting his phone and reading his messages without his permission and in the same way, he respects my privacy by not doing that with my phone as well. So it's already nothing kung saan namin ilapag yung phone namin. A fight always begins kasi with, "Bakit ayaw mo ipakita phone mo? May tinatago ka noh?". Dont worry, we've been through this already. ^_^ Also for us, it's of high importance to meet each other's set of friends, be it high school friends, schoolmates, colleagues or workmates. It's in this way where you get to know who he's with and to completely trust him when he needs to go out with his friends and to let me be when I also need to go out with my friends. Actually, we don't go out asking permissions from each other. What happens is I just tell him who I'm with and where we're going - it's more of the "I inform him" type. By the way, trust and communication go hand in hand together. As long as you communicate with your partner as often as possible, you will feel more comfortable about each other. In our case, we just inform each other so that we're both at ease on what we're doing, where we were and who we're with while we're actually away from each other. You know, we are in a long distance relationship so we really need to communicate often.

Of course, in a relationship, all will not be about problems and misunderstandings, there will also come a time where you will see and feel that you won't live without each other and you practically want to just be with that person every time. For us, we are not yet on the marrying stage but you will know that you and your partner are already serious with each other if you have talked about the future. Especially for the guys who will only talk about the future when they are ready and when they are seriously in love with the girl. Totoo pala to mga teh. Rhy, touch move.. hahah! Believe it or not, Rhy and I haven't talked seriously about our future for five years. It was only about what we wanted to have for ourselves, our dreams, just all about me and just all about him. There were joke times about when we will marry and these were normally brought up by our parents but us talking about it was just recently. Walang biro! Haha! Maybe we were just comfortable enough to talk about it when we were more than five years together. Ganun katagal mga teh. So just lately, we talked about the age we wanted to get married, to have our own house, to have kids and other marriage and after-marriage topics. Ang landi lang namin. Haha!!! But seriously when I was just on my teenage years, I wanted to get married when I was 25 but I saw I was not yet ready and then when I was 25, I extended it to 27. Jusko, naisip ko next year na agad yun and I feel I'm not yet ready. So we were thinking maybe when I'm 28 and he's 29. Sakto 29 pala talaga niya gusto. Hahah! Don't worry mga teh, mag 28 na siya this November. Lols!

Anyhow, I hope there came your times where you just felt you're tired on your partner but you didn't gave up... where you felt alone yet you still made a way to understand your partner... where you didn't trust your partner but made your way through it and in fact, made your relationship stronger.. and where you have already talked about the future and just felt that your partner was really the one whom you can't live without. OMG! In love lang talaga ako.

Til here guys. XO! Stay in love with your partners. Mwah!